Greetings, Locals! This community is all about relationships, sensuality and how to make our love lives even better! I hope to share tips and tricks, ideas and insights into this wonderful world. So what do you say? Let's get started!
This first post is about asking for what you want in the bedroom... which is not easy to do! But how can you get what you want if you don't ask for it? Relying on ESP doesn't work so well... Asking for what we want in our personal lives is a liberating feeling and actually receiving it, with the ones we choose to share them with, is truly wonderful.
While fear can hold us back, we must take that deep breath and start the conversation! Your worlds will open up and your relationships will grow stronger, both intimately and platonicaly.
"A lot of people are afraid to say what they want. That’s why they don’t get what they want." ~ Madonna
Why is it so important to us that others approve of our most intimate thoughts? Shouldn't our approvals come from within, or shared with those closest to us?
Shouldn't we feel empowered by our actions and feelings when asking for what we most want?
I say, "Hell ya"!!
Asking for what we want in our personal lives is a liberating feeling and actually receiving it, with the ones we choose to share them with, is truly wonderful.
While fear can hold us back, we must take that deep breath and start the conversation! Your worlds will open up and your relationships will grow stronger, both intimately and platonically.
There are no dirty old men or sluts in my world and I hope you can join me in that celebration!
Our world is a better place when we are satisfied at our most deepest level; there is no room for hate if you are filled with love.
Now what the hell does this have to do with sensuality? It is a great place to start to explore your wants and desires in a safe and non-judgmental space. Do you need some practice telling your partner what feels good and what doesn't? Nobody should accept touch that they don't want and that goes for both men and women.
So Please! Break down those barriers and start your sensual journey today!
Pardon the delay on my report on the worldwide Orgy!! It was soo much fun!! ... so much so that I am adding in the Lush toy into my services...
Anyway, back to the Orgy story :)
I purchased my Lush toy recently and had been wanting to try it out, what better way to do so than during an online #orgy for Masturbation May!! ( I didn't even know it was a thing!! )
To my surprise I didn't have to wait until the 9pm starting time for my time zone! As soon as I connected to the app my vibe started!! Every time someone tweeted the hashtag I felt it!! What a way to start a Saturday!
I also shared my handle on the app with a fella on the east coast of the USA. It was completely random, and I did get other requests for my handle via twitter but hey! I thought one stranger was enough LOL!
Being on the west coast of Canada, I was curious as to how this whole thing would work out !! We chatted on the app and decided that when I went out for a walk he could "control" my vibe!!
My husband and I decided that we ...
I am taking the plunge and joining in the #LovenseOrgy happening online tomorrow 9pm PST ~ celebrating Masturbation May! ~ who knew?? 😇
I did not! ( you can find out all about it through Twitter, if you are interested in joining too! )
I have recently purchased one of their remote control toys and what better way to try it out, then adding in some hashtag pulses !!
Check back in a couple of days and I will post my hopefully! exciting experience as well as a detailed review of the toy itself!!
With pleasures,
Selene xo
If you can’t take me at my worst,
you don’t deserve at my best!
Have you seen this quote, perhaps as a meme or on a relationship board? Do you agree with it?
I believe these words holds within them the reasons why so many couples have such trouble communicating with each other. Basically, I believe this quote says that no matter how bad my behaviour is, it is my partner’s responsibility to “take it”. The reward for taking my negative behaviour, whether it be anger, jealousy, competitiveness, pettiness, are the wonderful things I will do and say once my dark mood passes. Basically, I am such an amazing person that in order to be worthy of being my partner they must be ready to take all of my hurtful behaviour without complaint.
Let that sink in a moment. I am such an amazing person that anyone wishing to enjoy my company must prove their worthiness by submitting to my darker moods without question. Any hint of consequences just proves that he is not “the one” and I must continue the...
