Working towards fulfilling your wants and needs in your intimate relationships really does help with all your relationships; friends, family, and workmates. Getting used to asking for what you need in your life builds confidence and becomes second nature when you follow 4 steps.
---> Observe the behaviour (that is working or not working for you)
---> Identify the feelings that come about from that behaviour
---> Identify the need behind the feeling
---> Make a request
While these steps seem easy, they are harder than you think! We get caught up in we perceive others "doing to us" instead of taking responsibility for our own feelings and needs..
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Pardon the delay on my report on the worldwide Orgy!! It was soo much fun!! ... so much so that I am adding in the Lush toy into my services...
Anyway, back to the Orgy story :)
I purchased my Lush toy recently and had been wanting to try it out, what better way to do so than during an online #orgy for Masturbation May!! ( I didn't even know it was a thing!! )
To my surprise I didn't have to wait until the 9pm starting time for my time zone! As soon as I connected to the app my vibe started!! Every time someone tweeted the hashtag I felt it!! What a way to start a Saturday!
I also shared my handle on the app with a fella on the east coast of the USA. It was completely random, and I did get other requests for my handle via twitter but hey! I thought one stranger was enough LOL!
Being on the west coast of Canada, I was curious as to how this whole thing would work out !! We chatted on the app and decided that when I went out for a walk he could "control" my vibe!!
My husband and I decided that we ...
I am taking the plunge and joining in the #LovenseOrgy happening online tomorrow 9pm PST ~ celebrating Masturbation May! ~ who knew?? 😇
I did not! ( you can find out all about it through Twitter, if you are interested in joining too! )
I have recently purchased one of their remote control toys and what better way to try it out, then adding in some hashtag pulses !!
Check back in a couple of days and I will post my hopefully! exciting experience as well as a detailed review of the toy itself!!
With pleasures,
Selene xo
If you can’t take me at my worst,
you don’t deserve at my best!
Have you seen this quote, perhaps as a meme or on a relationship board? Do you agree with it?
I believe these words holds within them the reasons why so many couples have such trouble communicating with each other. Basically, I believe this quote says that no matter how bad my behaviour is, it is my partner’s responsibility to “take it”. The reward for taking my negative behaviour, whether it be anger, jealousy, competitiveness, pettiness, are the wonderful things I will do and say once my dark mood passes. Basically, I am such an amazing person that in order to be worthy of being my partner they must be ready to take all of my hurtful behaviour without complaint.
Let that sink in a moment. I am such an amazing person that anyone wishing to enjoy my company must prove their worthiness by submitting to my darker moods without question. Any hint of consequences just proves that he is not “the one” and I must continue the...
